Rather than focusing on identifying red flags and warning signs of a toxic partner, it's important to start discussing what qualities make a good partner and what to look for in a relationship. While everyone has preferences in a partner, it's essential to identify traits that are necessary for building a healthy and happy relationship.

Here are the top eight traits of a good partner:

1. Actively Listens: A good partner engages in active listening by actively engaging with gestures, comments, and questions to understand you better.
2. Shares the Burden: A good partner supports you and shares your load, making your life easier.
3. Makes Life Better: A good partner adds value to your life, treats others with respect and empathy, and creates a positive environment.
4. Not Threatened: A good partner celebrates your success and is not intimidated by it.
5. Consistent: A good partner follows through with plans and is reliable.
6. Feel Safe: A good partner makes you feel safe physically, mentally, and emotionally.
7. Actively Working to Better Themselves: A good partner has a growth mindset and actively works on self-improvement.
8. Respectful: A good partner treats you with respect, compassion, and equality and holds you accountable for your actions.

While no one is perfect, these traits should be the minimum standards for any relationship. A good partner may not have all of these qualities, but they should be aware of their behaviour and willing to work on it. By prioritising these traits, you can build a healthier and happier relationship.